Look: Did YOU ask to be born? Did I? Did anyone else? Was anyone here given a choice about whether or not they wanted to come into this world?Brad wrote:Suicide, using the common meaning of the word, is never moral, under any system of ethics. I'm extremely curious how you arrived at your conclusions to the contrary.
Heck no. That choice was made totally without your consent.
So at the very least as a consolation, you have the right to take your own life. Or you should, anyway. Otherwise, you're not truly free. You're a cog in a machine whose whole purpose is to be controlled by someone else, or else to overcome and become the controller (though the latter isn't even an option for most people).
You know what the problem with this debate is? There's no THOUGHT. The first thing everyone is trying to do is polarize the issue by talking about religious doctrines or how they were so hurt by a friend's suicide or whatnot. Everyone's quick to throw out any possible line of debate by getting emotional--which is of course most people's first line of defense against new and uncomfortable ideas. It's how every uncommon thought in history has been opposed.
And really, most of the time it seems to me anti-suicide beliefs are selfish. You don't want your friend to commit suicide because you want him to be there for YOU. You say you want what's best for him but you really want what's best for yourself. No one's thinking of what's best for the person who killed him/herself--they pretend they are, but from how people are so willing to demonize those who commit suicide, you can see where their loyalties REALLY lie.